Languishing vs. Flourishing: How to Feel Alive Again with Corey Keyes

In this episode, Corey Keyes explores the concept of languishing vs. flourishing and how to feel alive again He delves into the often-overlooked emotional state that exists between mental illness and thriving and discusses how many of us can feel worn down by life and stuck in a gray zone of stagnation. Corey shares his insights on the importance of mindset and how changing the way we think about our daily tasks can lead us to a more fulfilling life. The discussion touches on the critical aspects of purpose, connection, and vitality, offering listeners strategies to move from languishing to flourishing.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:05:29 – The Role of Positive Psychology and Mental Health
• 00:06:46 – Corey’s Background and the Successful Aging Research Network
• 00:08:08 – The Purpose of Positive Psychology and Addressing Languishing
• 00:09:25 – Flourishing Despite Mental Health Conditions
• 00:10:08 – The Relationship Between Flourishing and Mental Illness
• 00:12:49 – The Challenge of Defining Recovery in Addiction and Mental Health
• 00:14:02 – The Lack of Peer Support Groups for Depression
• 00:15:05 – The Role of Experts in Mental Health
• 00:16:15 – The Difference Between Sharing with Experts and Peer Support
• 00:17:07 – The Importance of Having a Clear Program in Support Groups
• 00:18:04 – The Need for a New Approach to Mental Health Support Programs
• 00:19:01 – Defining Languishing and Its Distinction from Depression
• 00:20:36 – The Overlap Between Languishing and Depression
• 00:22:29 – The Impact of Languishing on Mental Health
• 00:23:39 – Personal Reflections on Eliminating Suffering and Seeking Joy
• 00:25:04 – The Challenge of Recalibrating After Addiction
• 00:25:58 – The Importance of Functioning Well
• 00:28:05 – The Nuances of Feeling Good vs. Functioning Well
• 00:30:09 – The Difference Between Satisfaction and Momentary Feelings
• 00:31:04 – The Role of Storytelling in Perceived Well-Being
• 00:32:49 – The Importance of Meaning and Values Over Mood
• 00:33:59 – Allowing Self-Assessment in Measuring Well-Being
• 00:35:53 – The Criteria for Flourishing and Languishing
• 00:37:08 – Encouraging Reflection and Integration for Listeners
• 00:38:18 – The Importance of Functioning Well in Achieving Flourishing
• 00:40:28 – The Difficulty of Achieving Social Well-Being
• 00:41:10 – The Five Vitamins of Flourishing
• 00:42:01 – Integrating Flourishing Activities into Daily Life
• 00:45:05 – The Importance of Mindset in Achieving Flourishing
• 00:47:09 – Research on Mindsets and Practical Applications

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