I Have ADHD Podcast cover image

I Have ADHD Podcast

241 Why do ADHDers Struggle with Self-Trust?

Dec 12, 2023
29:29
Snipd AI
Learn about the struggle of self-trust in ADHD individuals and the impact of an external locus of evaluation. Explore the role of childhood in building self-trust and make a commitment to self-trust. Discover the benefits of the Focused ADHD Coaching Program and the importance of self-trust.
Read more

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

  • Many adults with ADHD struggle with self-trust and often rely on others for validation and decision-making, leading to a lack of confidence in their own abilities.
  • Childhood experiences greatly influence the development of self-trust, with good enough caregivers validating needs and emotions, fostering autonomy and resilience, while many ADHDers lack this foundation, leading to an external locus of evaluation and reliance on others' opinions.

Deep dives

The Struggle with Self-Trust in Adults with ADHD

Many adults with ADHD struggle with self-trust, often delegating their authority to others and living reactively rather than proactively. This lack of self-trust leads to agonizing over decisions and playing small, as they are unsure if they will follow through. Childhood experiences greatly impact self-trust development, with good enough caregivers validating needs and emotions, fostering autonomy and resilience. However, many ADHDers did not have this privilege, leading to an external locus of evaluation, valuing others' opinions over their own. It's important to redefine self-trust as believing in one's own experience, taking care of oneself, and having the ability to move forward, regardless of outcomes.

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode