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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

2119: Are Your Working Too Hard in Your Relationship? by Tonya Lester on Shared Responsibilities & Self-Acceptance

Mar 30, 2024
Relationship expert Tonya Lester discusses the dangers of over-functioning in relationships and the importance of shared responsibilities and self-acceptance. She offers strategies for breaking the cycle of over-functioning, promoting balance and authenticity. Lester's guidance aims to cultivate healthier relationships and a deeper appreciation for life's priorities.
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  • Over-functioning in relationships can lead to hidden costs of self-expectations imbalance.
  • Balanced approach to shared responsibilities and self-acceptance can improve relationships and life priorities.

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Dangers of Over-Functioning in Relationships

Many individuals find themselves in the role of over-functioning in relationships, taking on excessive responsibility and micromanaging tasks. This behavior stems from a belief that everything must be done perfectly, leading to a vicious cycle of feeling overwhelmed and underappreciated. Research indicates that women often bear the brunt of over-functioning, facing social consequences for any perceived shortcomings. Couples commonly exhibit a dynamic where one partner over-functions while the other under-functions, causing resentment and imbalance.

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