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The Resetter Podcast with Dr. Mindy Pelz

Stop Doing Too Much & Reclaim Your Peace with Terri Cole

Oct 28, 2024
Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist and empowerment expert, dives into the often-overlooked realm of high-functioning codependency. She shares how it manifests in high-achievers who over-invest in others' happiness, leading to burnout. The conversation covers the importance of setting boundaries and allowing loved ones to chart their own paths. Terri also emphasizes reclaiming self-worth and authenticity, advocating for women to prioritize self-care over self-abandonment as a path to personal peace and fulfillment.
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  • High-functioning codependency can lead to chronic exhaustion and relational dysfunction as individuals prioritize others' needs over their own well-being.
  • Embracing self-consideration and setting healthy boundaries are essential for reclaiming personal peace and fostering authentic relationships.

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Understanding High-Functioning Codependency

High-functioning codependency refers to being overly invested in the emotional states and decisions of those around you, often to the detriment of your internal peace. Unlike traditional codependency, those affected may not see themselves as dependent but instead view themselves as caretakers or fixers. This mindset can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and feelings of being overwhelmed as they manage the problems of others while neglecting their own needs. Recognizing this pattern is crucial for healing, as acknowledging one's role in perpetuating these dynamics is the first step toward recovery.

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