The Dr. John Delony Show Conflict Expert: Simple Frameworks to Make Hard Conversations Easier (With Jefferson Fisher)
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Mar 31, 2025 
This conversation features Jefferson Fisher, an attorney and conversation expert, who emphasizes that winning arguments shouldn't be the goal. Topics include effective communication strategies for tough discussions in relationships, transforming conflict into connection, and the significance of emotional independence. They also discuss navigating gaslighting and setting boundaries in strained relationships, while highlighting the importance of self-awareness and quality sleep for overall wellness. Listeners are equipped with practical tips for fostering trust and understanding.
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Starting Hard Conversations
- Start hard conversations with "Can we talk about something important?"
- Briefly preview the topic and desired outcome, like feeling understood.
Handling Gaslighting
- Respond to gaslighting with "I see things differently."
- Then, be silent and don't engage further.
Leading with the Hard Talk
- Leading with pleasantries before sensitive topics increases anxiety.
- Instead, prime the conversation by acknowledging its difficulty.
