How To! How To Be an Ethical Hater
Jul 22, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Scaachi Koul, a Slate culture writer and author of 'Sucker Punch,' delves into the world of ethical hating. She redefines what it means to criticize by promoting 'hating up'—challenging those in power instead of the vulnerable. Koul shares personal anecdotes about parental influence and the role of humor in navigating societal issues. The discussion is both humorous and insightful, providing a fresh perspective on dissent and the importance of intentional criticism as a tool for social change.
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Ethical Hating Defined
- Ethical hating involves criticizing or calling out injustices with purpose, not random negativity.
- It's about "hating for good" to improve society, not harming individuals indiscriminately.
Hate Up: Target Power
- Ethical hating means directing criticism "up" toward those with power.
- Misplaced anger at powerless individuals is ineffective and unjust.
Humor Reflects Power Dynamics
- Those with oppressive power lack humor because their power depends on oppression.
- Oppressed people cultivate humor to survive and resist.
