In a candid talk, Rachel Hollis, a bestselling author and motivational speaker, shares her journey of perseverance and emotional acceptance. She discusses the importance of emotional boundaries in relationships and how to deal with public criticism. Hollis dives into the transformative power of acceptance for personal growth and the significance of navigating shame and failure. Their conversation also explores authenticity in the face of opposition, emphasizing the balance between feedback and self-expression.
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Holiday's Grammy Win
Ryan Holiday won a Grammy for producing a jazz album's liner notes.
He created a fake Grammy because only one real one is awarded per category.
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The Non-Linearity of Success
Success is rarely linear; it often involves unexpected turns and serendipitous opportunities.
People often misrepresent their path, making it seem planned, which can be intimidating.
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Hollis's Writing Journey
Rachel Hollis's sixth book, "Girl, Wash Your Face," became a bestseller.
Her prior five books were not as successful, highlighting the importance of persistence.
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In 'The Obstacle Is the Way', Ryan Holiday presents a framework for turning obstacles into successes. Drawing from the philosophy of Stoicism and the writings of Marcus Aurelius, Holiday outlines three disciplines: perception, action, and will. He illustrates these principles with historical anecdotes from figures such as John D. Rockefeller, Amelia Earhart, Ulysses S. Grant, and Steve Jobs. The book emphasizes the importance of perception in shaping one's response to obstacles, the need for intentional and creative action, and the cultivation of will to persist through challenges. Holiday argues that by adopting these Stoic principles, individuals can transform their obstacles into opportunities for growth and success.
DIDN'T SEE IT COMING
Carey Nieuwhof
In 'Didn't See It Coming,' Carey Nieuwhof addresses seven core issues that can significantly impact one's life and leadership. He provides clear tools and guidelines for anticipating and avoiding these challenges, as well as steps to overcome them if already encountered. The book covers topics such as cynicism, compromise, disconnectedness, irrelevance, pride, burnout, and the emptiness of success, offering practical solutions, probing questions, and insightful wisdom to help readers grow and achieve their potential.
Girl, Stop Apologizing
Rachel Hollis
In 'Girl, Stop Apologizing', Rachel Hollis challenges women to stop talking themselves out of their dreams. The book is divided into three parts: 'Excuses' to let go of, 'Behaviors' to adopt, and 'Skills' to acquire. Hollis shares personal stories and practical advice on how to overcome common limiting beliefs, develop successful habits, and set goals effectively. The book aims to empower women to be true to themselves, set boundaries, and gain real confidence in life.
Girl, Wash Your Face
Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be
Rachel Hollis
Girl, Wash Your Face is a self-help book that combines memoir, motivational tips, Bible quotations, and common-sense advice. The book is structured around 20 lies that the author, Rachel Hollis, once believed about herself and how she overcame them. Each chapter focuses on a specific lie, such as 'I'll start tomorrow' or 'I am defined by my weight,' and provides personal anecdotes and practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles. The book emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, self-reliance, and living with passion and purpose. It also includes elements of Hollis's own life experiences, from her family background to her career and personal relationships, making it a relatable and motivational read for many women[1][3][5].
In the first of a two-part discussion, Ryan speaks with Rachel Hollis about how her success has been defined by perseverance and acceptance, the importance of approaching work without arrogance, improving relationships by working to understand emotional boundaries, dealing with public criticism, and more. The second part of the discussion can be found at Rachel’s podcast, The Rachel Hollis Podcast.
Rachel Hollis is an author, podcast host, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, blogger, and mother of four. Two of her three self-help books, Girl, Wash Your Face andGirl, Stop Apologizing, have become massive worldwide bestsellers, and The Rachel Hollis Podcast inspires a wide listenership with interviews and self-help oriented content. Rachel also founded and grew her own media company, The Hollis Company, which produces books, podcasts, movies, social and live events and physical products. Her work can be found at her website msrachelhollis.com.
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