Almost 30 Ep. 240 - Shan Boodram on Sex, Relationships, + Dating With Confidence
Jul 25, 2019
In this engaging conversation, clinical sexologist Shan Boodram, also known as Shan BOODY, shares her journey from childhood curiosities about human connection to becoming an intimacy expert and author of 'The Game of Desire.' She emphasizes the importance of confidence in relationships and the need for purposeful conversations in dating. Shan dives into dating app strategies, apology languages, and the health benefits of orgasms. With a mix of humor and insightful tips, she encourages listeners to embrace their unique relationship journeys.
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Sex as a Journey, Not Destination
- Men often focus on orgasm as the endpoint, causing pressure in sexual experiences.
- Shan Boodram highlights sex as a journey, not just a destination, urging enjoyment of the process.
Use Quizzes For Better Intimacy
- Use quizzes to learn your and your partner's love language, turn on triggers, and attachment style.
- Quizzes help clarify intimate needs and create productive conversations in relationships.
Master Dating Apps Strategically
- Be proactive on dating apps by making the first move with engaging, specific messages.
- Develop a strategy to screen and enjoy dates rather than passively waiting to be chosen.
