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2279: The Many Benefits Of Self-Compassion by Dr. Lisa Firestone of PsychAlive on Adopting Self-Kindness

Aug 17, 2024
12:19
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Dr. Lisa Firestone, a psychologist and self-compassion expert, dives into the life-changing benefits of self-kindness over self-esteem. She discusses how our critical inner voice can undermine our mental well-being and emphasizes the practice of self-compassion as a remedy. Firestone highlights Dr. Kristin Neff's work, revealing how embracing mindfulness and recognizing our shared humanity fosters emotional resilience. She underscores that by treating ourselves with kindness, we not only heal but also enhance our relationships with others.
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Quick takeaways

  • Self-compassion effectively addresses the critical inner voice, promoting a healthier internal dialogue and emotional resilience.
  • Embracing self-compassion offers more stable psychological well-being than self-esteem by fostering kindness, mindfulness, and shared humanity.

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Understanding the Inner Critic

Self-criticism often creates a divided sense of self, where one part encourages and supports while another undermines and critiques. This critical inner voice, referred to as the Anti-Self, can significantly impact self-esteem and hinder personal growth. An effective exercise to address this involves writing self-critical thoughts in the second person and then responding to them in the first person with compassion. This shift in narrative helps individuals challenge and reframe negative thoughts, fostering a more supportive internal dialogue.

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