Hard Men Podcast Answering Patron Questions
This engaging discussion touches on best beard practices, from oils to barber tips. The hosts dive into the importance of physical training in building community and personal responsibility. They also share insights on maintaining accountability among young men through reading assignments and structured growth. Further, they caution against idolizing online figures and stress local mentorship. With advice on balancing entrepreneurship and integrity, the conversation encourages turning frustrations into productive actions.
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Simple Beard Care Routine
- Use a little beard oil after showering and comb through your beard to control dandruff and keep it smelling nice.
- Avoid trimming yourself if unsure; let a barber clean and shape your beard during haircuts.
Structure Youth Training With Monthly Focus
- Run monthly skill sessions for teens covering shooting, medical, or vocational topics and bring in subject-matter experts.
- Assign short books or lectures as homework with essays to enforce learning and accountability.
Teach Deadlines By Enforcing Consequences
- Set firm deadlines and enforce consequences to teach responsibility and teamwork among young men.
- Treat assignments as team tasks so late work becomes a group accountability issue.
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Intro
00:00 • 45sec
Hosts Open the Q&A Episode
00:45 • 2min
Best Beard Practices
03:01 • 2min
Overview of Men’s Training Curriculum
05:14 • 2min
Assigned Reading and Homework for Young Men
07:24 • 1min
Enforcing Standards and Accountability
08:43 • 4min
Physical Training as Part of Piety
12:42 • 2min
Guild Curriculum and Reading Lists
14:55 • 6min
How to Check a Brother on the Right
21:23 • 5min
Avoiding the Controlled-Opposition Trap
26:05 • 13min
Holding Black-Pill Realism with Positive Vision
39:20 • 3min
Responding to Correction from the Left Without Breaking Fellowship
41:52 • 9min
When Disagreements Threaten Friendships
50:23 • 8min
Which Craft or Discipline Should You Pursue?
58:05 • 7min
Entrepreneurship and Transitioning from Corporate Work
01:05:23 • 5min
Difference Between Gravitas and Agency
01:10:30 • 8min
Handling Friends Who Blame Demons for Everything
01:18:01 • 10min
Outro
01:28:31 • 1min
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