Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging Ep 382 - James
Mar 5, 2025
An Australian living in the UK shares nearly two decades of experience navigating non-monogamy, blending kink, polyamory, and swinging. He discusses how a late diagnosis of Autism and ADHD reshaped his understanding of relationships and identity. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, consent, and self-awareness in non-monogamous dynamics. Personal anecdotes reveal the complexities of societal norms, personal growth, and community connection. Exciting community events, including workshops and interactive gatherings, are also highlighted.
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James's Early Non-Monogamy Journey
- James shares his early experiences with non-monogamy and kink, starting in Australia and later in South America.
- These experiences shaped his understanding and approach to relationships and non-monogamy.
Diagnosis Shifts Self-Perception
- A late ADHD and autism diagnosis reframed how James views himself and relationships.
- This diagnosis shifted his perception from feeling broken to embracing his neurodivergent traits.
Cultivate Secure Self Attachment
- Build a secure attachment with yourself before entering polyamorous relationships.
- Self-awareness and a secure base make managing multiple relationships easier and safer.
