The Kink Consultant Great Sex Start with a Good Conversation with Dr. Tara
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Dec 18, 2025 Dr. Tara, a tenured professor of relational sexual communication and host of the Luvbites podcast, dives deep into the art of discussing sex and intimacy. She emphasizes the crucial role of emotional safety in communication and shares insights on overcoming shame in relationships. Dr. Tara reveals practical tips on navigating conversations about money and sex while discussing her own divorce experiences that shaped her empathy. With a focus on building clear, honest communication, she presents foundational tools from her book to enhance intimacy and connection.
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Sexual Communication Spans A Lifetime
- Dr. Tara teaches sexual communication across the lifespan, from sexual debut through aging and dysfunction.
- Communication topics include anatomy, sexual debut, dating, micro/macro communication, and aging challenges.
Prioritize Emotional Safety First
- Build emotional safety before expecting honest sexual communication.
- Ensure consistency and trust so partners feel their words won't be judged.
Get Educated To Speak Confidently
- Learn language and skills from credible sources to build confidence in sexual conversations.
- Read books, listen to podcasts, and gain knowledge so you can request safety and express needs.
