014 - The Coach Up: Why Bad Days Matter More Than Good Days
Feb 19, 2024
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Focus on improving bad and average days for sustainable growth. Small steps forward are more valuable than overexertion. Embrace average days and maintain a positive mindset. Consistency in work ethic is key for progress. Olympic gold medalist example and two-step metric for evaluating progress.
Improving on bad days leads to sustainable progress by raising the floor and focusing on consistent growth.
Changing the perception of bad days as setbacks to opportunities for growth and resilience is crucial for long-term success.
Deep dives
Raising the floor: Bad days matter
Raising the floor means focusing on improving bad days instead of obsessing over amazing days. By making progress on bad days or not letting them ruin the week, sustainable progress can be achieved. The concept of regression to the mean suggests that after a series of bad days, improvement is more likely. Instead of striving for heroic efforts, becoming a better average over time leads to sustainable progress. Too much attention is given to great and worst days, while the majority of days are average. It is important to avoid overexertion and focus on small consistent steps forward.
Changing the relationship with bad days
Changing the relationship with bad days is crucial. It's not just about the outcome but also how it feels. Rather than letting a bad day bring you down and cause self-doubt, viewing it as just a bad day without dramatic impact is real progress. Raising the floor means making bad days not as disruptive and bouncing back faster. It involves accepting that not every day will be exceptional and recognizing the ebb and flow of productivity. Consistency is key, whether in physical pursuits or psychological ones, but understanding individual needs is essential for optimal performance.
"The sky's the limit." "Shoot for the stars." When it comes to success, we often think in terms of being our absolute best. On today's episode of The Coach Up, Brad Stulberg explains why, if you want to get better, you should focus on your bad and average days—not the good or great ones.