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Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson on Raising Self-Driven Children

Jul 17, 2021
Join Dr. William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist, and Ned Johnson, founder of PrepMatters, as they explore nurturing self-driven children. They discuss the dangers of over-involved parenting and the importance of fostering intrinsic motivation over societal pressures. Learn how allowing children to face challenges builds resilience and confidence. The duo emphasizes redefining 'doing your best' as a personal journey and the transformative power of personal passions in education, advocating for a balance between excellence and embracing 'good enough'.
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INSIGHT

Intrinsic Motivation

  • Self-drive isn't inherently good; it needs to come from within.
  • True self-driven individuals base their motivation on self-awareness and personal values, not external pressures.
ANECDOTE

Therapy and Expectations

  • Many adults in therapy realize they've lived based on others' expectations, not their own.
  • This highlights the need to start discovering one's own path much earlier in life.
INSIGHT

Misplaced Ambition

  • The college admissions scandal showed parents pushing ambition, not kids wanting it.
  • Internalizing external pressure is not self-driven; true motivation should be intrinsic.
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