The Gray Area with Sean Illing Did the sexual revolution go wrong?
May 2, 2022
Christine Emba, author of "Rethinking Sex" and Washington Post columnist, dives into the complexities of modern sexual culture. She argues many Americans are left unsatisfied and unsure of what they want. Emba challenges the limitations of consent, advocating for a new sexual ethic that emphasizes emotional connection. The conversation also explores the decline of sexual activity among youth and the impact of dating apps. Emba's reflections on the balance of individual freedom and societal responsibility raise important questions about the future of intimacy.
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Consent's Limitations
- Consent is a necessary legal baseline for sex, but it's insufficient for ensuring ethical and fulfilling experiences.
- We want more from sex than just legality; we desire ethical considerations and genuine care.
Misusing Consent
- Louis C.K. defended his inappropriate sexual behavior by claiming he obtained consent.
- Similarly, Marilyn Manson used consent as a defense against abuse allegations, highlighting how consent can be misused.
Societal Pressures and Consent
- People often consent to things that aren't good for them in the long run because they're unsure of their desires.
- Emba suggests we need to reflect on our wants and the societal pressures influencing them to make better choices.
