850: The Compliment I Never Forgot (and why you need to hear it too!)

Jun 20, 2025

Rachel shares a touching story about a life-changing compliment received on a luxury trip to Hawaii. Feeling insecure as a new mom, a stranger's kind words transformed her self-perception and changed her experience. She delves into the powerful impact of compliments on self-esteem and encourages spreading positivity. Through her journey of self-acceptance, Rachel emphasizes how a simple compliment can uplift others and calls on listeners to share kindness like confetti. Tune in for inspiring reflections on connection and self-love!

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Feeling Out of Place at Pool

Rachel Hollis felt out of place and insecure during her first luxury trip to Hawaii with a new baby.
She was intimidated by wealthy, confident women around her at the Four Seasons pool.

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Wealth Eases Beauty Confidence

Wealth and experience allow people to look more put-together and confident over time.
Rachel explains how disposable income made looking good easier as she aged.

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Transforming Compliment at Dinner

A wealthy, impeccably dressed woman complimented Rachel's knotted necklace at a fancy Hawaii dinner.
This compliment transformed Rachel's confidence and made her feel like a queen that night.

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