Conversations with Dr. Jennifer Engage in the Process
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Oct 24, 2024 
Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, dives deep into the intricacies of trust and honesty in relationships. She discusses the complexities of rebuilding trust after betrayal and emphasizes the importance of personal accountability. The conversation highlights the challenges of male sexuality and the dangers of perfectionism. Personal stories from the Art of Loving Retreat showcase transformative experiences, while the necessity of open dialogues about sexuality is underscored for healthier relationships.
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Exposure and Growth
- Mistakes in marriage, like infidelity, expose vulnerabilities and limitations.
- Couples who thrive after betrayal create a shared narrative of growth and redemption.
Exposure of Underlying Issues
- Infidelity exposes underlying issues in a relationship and individuals, such as entitlement or unmet needs.
- Addressing these root problems is crucial, rather than simply trying to forget the incident.
Understanding Compulsive Behavior
- Explore the reasons behind compulsive behaviors like pornography use.
- Ask yourself what need it fulfills or problem it solves, rather than simply condemning it.