Why we MUST prioritise our own ADHD self-regulation
Nov 17, 2024
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In this discussion, Kate welcomes Pearl Lopian, an experienced EFT practitioner and mentor, known for her impactful work in emotional freedom techniques. They dive into the significance of emotional regulation for those with ADHD and the concept of co-regulation in relationships. Pearl shares her journey with EFT and how it can facilitate profound emotional shifts. The duo emphasizes tapping techniques for enhancing self-awareness, managing anxiety, and fostering connections, providing listeners with hope and empowering strategies to reclaim emotional balance.
Understanding emotional regulation and co-regulation is essential for individuals with ADHD to build healthier relationships and coping strategies.
Tapping, or Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), is an effective method for managing emotional dysregulation related to ADHD and promoting overall well-being.
Deep dives
The Shift to Biweekly Toolkit Episodes
The toolkit episodes have transitioned to a biweekly release schedule to better accommodate the listeners and the host. Feedback has indicated that while listeners appreciate the content, the frequency of two episodes per week has posed a challenge for many. This change aims to enhance the listening experience, ensuring that participants can fully engage with each episode. The adjustment reflects a commitment to providing quality over quantity and listening to audience needs effectively.
Understanding Emotional Regulation and Co-Regulation
Emotional regulation is a crucial component for adults, particularly for those with ADHD, and it's linked to the concept of co-regulation. Co-regulation involves the reciprocal exchange of safety signals between individuals, which is essential for developing secure relationships. Many people, especially those from neurodivergent backgrounds, may not have experienced robust co-regulation during childhood, affecting their emotional responses in adulthood. Understanding this dynamic encourages individuals to adopt healthier coping strategies and establish safer emotional environments for themselves and their families.
The Impact of Hormonal Changes on ADHD
Women with ADHD face unique challenges related to hormonal fluctuations throughout their life stages, such as puberty, postpartum periods, and perimenopause. These hormonal changes commonly exacerbate ADHD symptoms, causing emotional dysregulation and stress. Without awareness or tools to manage these shifts, women may feel overwhelmed and lose control over their lives. By recognizing the interplay between ADHD and hormonal changes, women can seek strategies that empower them to navigate these challenges more effectively.
The Benefits of Tapping as a Regulating Tool
Tapping, or Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), is presented as a powerful tool for emotional regulation, particularly for managing ADHD-related challenges. This method involves tapping on specific acupressure points to alleviate stress and promote a sense of calm when faced with emotional dysregulation. Tapping can be utilized individually or in group settings, allowing participants to experience the collective energy that facilitates quicker relief from stress and anxiety. The practice not only aids individuals in managing their emotions but also extends its benefits to family members, promoting emotional well-being across relationships.
In this bonus episode, Kate discusses the critical importance of emotional regulation for ADHD and how understanding your nervous system and the concept of co-regulation can impact the quality of your relationships, both with yourself and others.
Learn why 'Emotional Freedom Technique' (tapping) could be the tool you need for better emotional regulation. You'll also hear from Pearl Lopian an experienced EFT practitioner. Pearl recounts her initial encounters with EFT and its transformative effects on her clients, underscoring the technique's ability to facilitate profound emotional releases and shifts in perspective.
Join Kate in this episode to gain a sense of hope and empowerment, learn how to control your emotions, and cultivate a supportive environment for yourself and your loved ones.
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