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Psychologists Off the Clock

378. The Happy High Achiever with Mary Anderson

Oct 23, 2024
Mary Anderson, a licensed psychologist and speaker, shares her insights on balancing high achievement with happiness. She discusses her concept of the 'Troublesome Trifecta'—cognitive distortions that hinder progress. Mary emphasizes the importance of striving for excellence instead of perfection and how celebrating small victories fuels motivation. Listeners learn strategies for overcoming anxiety, reframing negative thoughts, and building genuine connections. Her approach encourages embracing mistakes and cultivating a compassionate mindset to unlock true potential.
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  • Recognizing cognitive distortions like the 'Troublesome Trifecta' can significantly reduce anxiety and promote healthier self-esteem among high achievers.
  • Fostering authentic connections by embracing vulnerability enhances emotional health and helps build deeper relationships, providing essential support during challenges.

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The Importance of Behavioral Shifts

Shifting focus from challenging thoughts to actionable behaviors can significantly aid progress. Engaging in concrete tasks, such as chores or making lists, can redirect attention and ease feelings of overwhelm. This approach emphasizes that taking even small steps can lead to behavioral change, which in turn helps inform more balanced thinking. By proving oneself capable of completing tasks, individuals can foster a sense of accomplishment, ultimately enhancing emotional well-being.

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