Modern Life Is Making You Sick, But It Doesn’t Have To | Dr. Gabor Maté

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Apr 1, 2024

Dr. Gabor Maté, a bestselling author and expert on stress and addiction, dives into the hidden societal stressors impacting our health. He critiques the concept of 'normal' in modern life, linking it to rising issues like addiction and autoimmune conditions. Maté emphasizes the importance of understanding trauma, not just the big events, but the everyday wounds we face. He advocates for a trauma-informed approach to health and hints at the healing potential of psychedelics, urging listeners to rethink how societal factors affect well-being.

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The Myth of Normal

Societal norms, often seen as normal, can be unhealthy and unnatural.
Dr. Gabor Maté argues that modern society's structure contributes to widespread illness.

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Modern Society vs. Hunter-Gatherer Lifestyles

Modern society, despite advancements, has drawbacks compared to hunter-gatherer lifestyles.
Humans evolved in communal groups, and modern isolation contradicts this nature.

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Stress, Trauma, and Illness

Stress and trauma are significant factors contributing to both physical and mental illnesses.
These factors negatively impact various bodily systems, increasing vulnerability to diseases.

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