What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Dec 19, 2023
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Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss the purpose and benefits of meditation, their personal experiences and motivations, exploring past traumas and seeking understanding, emotions and esotericism, and their experiences with different spiritual practices. They also talk about their initial expectations and disillusionment with meditation.
Meditation offers more than mere escape or self-improvement, it provides access to intrinsic peace.
True spiritual development is not centered around self-image or external validation, but the recognition of inner peace and attunement.
Deep dives
Initial Interest in Meditation
The podcast episode starts with the host expressing gratitude for the impact his book on fear, confidence, and purpose has had on readers. He mentions a free video course companion for the book and encourages listeners to leave reviews. The episode then transitions into a conversation between the host and his wife about the host's journey into spiritual practice, specifically meditation. The host shares that he was initially drawn to meditation due to an interest in spiritual growth and the influence of Buddhist texts. He also mentions a desire to escape and find relief from emotional pain. The host reflects on attending meditation retreats and experiences moments of deep peace and heightened body awareness. These experiences shifted his understanding of the practice beyond self-image and escape, reminding him of the intrinsic peace that is always available within.
Challenges and Egoic Influences
As the host continued to explore meditation, he discusses encountering challenges and egoic influences. He shares that he had moments of struggling to integrate the concepts and intellectual understanding into day-to-day life. The host admits to being influenced by the circles he entered and the access he gained to extraordinary people, which initially inflated his ego. However, he recognized that true spiritual development was not centered around self-image or external validation. The host acknowledges that his understanding of meditation deepened by experiencing altered states, transmuting emotional storms, and tapping into deep peace. These profound experiences helped him recognize that peace is not dependent on external circumstances and that meditation offers more than mere escape or self-improvement.
Continued Practice and Nourishment
Despite the challenges and egoic influences, the host explains why he continues to practice meditation. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing its nourishing effect and how it helps him feel grounded and centered. The host shares that he doesn't view meditation as a means to achieve certain goals, but rather as a touchstone of inner peace and attunement. He acknowledges that discipline is needed to maintain regular practice, even when the allure of distractions may be tempting. The host expresses his concern for those who approach meditation solely as a tool for personal achievement without delving into the deeper transformative aspects that transcend the achiever mindset.
Inviting Questions from Listeners
Towards the end of the episode, the host and his wife invite listeners to reach out with any questions or alternative inquiries they may have about meditation or related topics. They suggest using the contact form on the podcast's website or triplelinear.com to submit questions, expressing openness to addressing various inquiries and perspectives.
Is meditation just a way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? Today my wife Alyson talk about what drew me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/meditation-2
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