

#11: Vanessa Van Edwards – Conversation starters, overcoming awkwardness, passive income, and pivoting around challenges
38 snips Jun 9, 2020
Vanessa Van Edwards, Lead Investigator at Science of People and bestselling author, shares her journey from awkwardness to becoming a communication expert. She discusses the significance of conversational skills, revealing effective strategies for authentic connections. Vanessa delves into overcoming self-doubt, the importance of emotional intelligence, and her pivot into entrepreneurship. She highlights her adventures in generating passive income through platforms like Udemy while recounting the ups and downs of her brand evolution amid challenges.
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Best Conversation Starter
- Try using "Working on anything exciting recently?" as a conversation starter.
- It's a safe way to move beyond typical small talk and encourages deeper discussions.
Social Scripting and Fear
- Social scripting stems from a deep-seated fear of not being liked. This leads to repetitive, predictable conversations.
Nightclub Nostalgia
- Vanessa's experience at a nightclub triggered the same sensory memories as her sixth-grade school dance. This highlights how early experiences shape social interactions.