The Zen Studies Podcast 190 – Leaping Beyond Fear of Rejection: Giving the Gift of Self
Dec 23, 2021
Explore the transformative power of giving the gift of self, which encompasses time, creativity, and genuine presence. Delve into inspiring stories, like the monk Never Disrespectful, who embodied open-hearted generosity despite rejection. Discover how childhood fears shape adult inhibition and learn to embrace sincerity over seeking affirmation. With practical examples, the discussion emphasizes the importance of participating in everyday acts of generosity, creating a ripple effect of positivity in our interactions.
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Never Disrespectful Bodhisattva
- Domyo Burk retells the Lotus Sutra story of the bodhisattva Never Disrespectful who bowed to everyone and praised them as future Buddhas.
- He persisted despite being cursed and hit, and later achieved supreme awakening and wide respect.
No Fixed Self, Still A Self To Offer
- Domyo Burk explains that while the self lacks inherent essence, we still have a changing, relational self to offer.
- Our self arises dependently and isn't limited to our body or possessions.
Offer Nonmaterial Gifts Freely
- Do offer your attention, time, encouragement, and presence as forms of the gift of self.
- Share creativity, honesty, and active listening without treating them as possessions.