ReThinking

The emotions you’ve felt but never named with John Koenig

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Mar 4, 2025
Join John Koenig, a creative mind behind "The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows," as he introduces fascinating concepts like 'sonder'—the realization that everyone has a rich inner life. He and Adam dive into the bittersweet feeling of finishing a great book and the dread of chasing dreams. They explore the art of inventing words to express complex emotions, shedding light on how language fosters connection and empathy. Get ready to expand your emotional vocabulary and appreciate the nuances of human experiences!
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INSIGHT

Sonder: Sorrow or Joy?

  • John Koenig views "sonder" as a sorrow due to the vastness of human experience we miss.
  • Adam Grant interprets it as joy, highlighting the beauty of others' complex lives.
ANECDOTE

Sonder's Origin

  • Koenig's insomnia and highway drives inspired "sonder".
  • Observing fleeting glimpses into others' lives sparked his curiosity and desire to understand their stories.
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Sonder and Compassion

  • Grant suggests "sonder" combats binary bias by highlighting human complexity.
  • Flattening people to 2D simplifies them, hindering compassion and contributing to division.
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