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ReThinking

The emotions you’ve felt but never named with John Koenig

Mar 4, 2025
Join John Koenig, a creative mind behind "The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows," as he introduces fascinating concepts like 'sonder'—the realization that everyone has a rich inner life. He and Adam dive into the bittersweet feeling of finishing a great book and the dread of chasing dreams. They explore the art of inventing words to express complex emotions, shedding light on how language fosters connection and empathy. Get ready to expand your emotional vocabulary and appreciate the nuances of human experiences!
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Quick takeaways

  • The concept of sonder highlights the complexity of individual lives, fostering empathy by recognizing that everyone has their own intricate stories.
  • Creating new emotional vocabulary is essential for articulating nuanced human experiences, enhancing our understanding and connection to one another.

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Understanding Sonder

Sonder refers to the realization that each person you encounter has a life as rich and complex as your own. This concept emphasizes the emotional weight of recognizing the multitude of stories that exist within the lives of others. While it is a source of sadness in acknowledging that we can never truly grasp the depth of these experiences, it also serves as a reminder of the beauty and complexity inherent in humanity. The dichotomy between sorrow and joy encapsulated in sonder highlights the profound connections we can foster, despite the limitations of our understanding.

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