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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

Feb 19, 2025
Alison Wood Brooks, a behavioral research scientist at Harvard Business School and author of "Talk: The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves," delves into the nuances of human interaction. She shares fascinating insights on how vulnerability enhances connections and explains why asking questions can spark magic in conversations. Their chat also touches on the complex dynamics of twin communication and the significant role humor plays in relationships. Plus, Alison reveals why saying ‘I’m sorry’ might matter more than saying ‘I love you.’
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  • Dr. Alison Wood Brooks emphasizes that the intricacies of human conversation require intentional preparation rather than relying solely on spontaneity.
  • Growing up as a twin offers unique insights into self-awareness through an external lens of one's own life experiences.

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The Science of Conversation

The podcast discusses the challenges and nuances of everyday conversations, emphasizing that communication is not as effortless as we often believe. Dr. Allison Wood Brooks highlights the importance of preparing for conversations, especially in scenarios such as dating, where many fail to contemplate how they will engage with others. She argues that using conversational techniques is not disingenuous but can actually enhance the quality of interactions. This preparation allows individuals to navigate conversations with more intention and success.

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