Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel We Started As An Affair
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Jun 9, 2022 
In this enlightening conversation, a couple reflects on their journey from an affair to building a committed relationship. The discussion navigates the intricate dynamics of rekindled connections influenced by societal expectations and familial obligations. They confront emotional struggles while addressing the complexities of blended families and generational impacts. The couple shares insights on aligning personal values with behaviors, exploring the emotional legacy of their past, and the challenges of creating a love story amidst a community that has a stake in their relationship.
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Reconnection and Affair
- The couple reconnected via Facebook after 20 years apart, having initially dated in high school.
- This reconnection sparked unresolved longings and led to an affair, divorce, and the blending of their families.
Compromise vs. Connection
- Years into their marriages, both partners convinced themselves that compromises were inevitable in relationships.
- However, their rekindled connection challenged these assumptions, leading them to cross boundaries they never thought they would.
Finding Validation
- The woman felt seen and special by her former partner, a stark contrast to her emotionally unfulfilling marriage.
- This validation made her crave more from the relationship, pushing her further into the affair.
