Dad Tired Dad (And Kids) Dealing With Stress & Anxiety (with David Marvin)
Nov 8, 2021
In this engaging conversation, David Marvin, an author and pastor known for his book 'We're All Freaking Out and Why We Don't Need To,' shares insights on managing anxiety in parenting. He discusses the surge of stress among fathers, particularly post-pandemic, and how social media amplifies these feelings. David emphasizes the power of faith, community, and open dialogue in tackling mental health issues. He also addresses youth anxiety, advocating for empathy and support from parents and churches to foster healthier mindsets in children.
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Anxiety and Control Illusion
- Anxiety was epidemic before COVID and spiked because people realized they had less control than they thought.
- We have unintentionally bought lies about control, mistaking ourselves as the sole providers rather than God providing.
Anxiety Rooted in Lies
- A friend felt anxious about not being able to pay for his kids' college and believed that not affording college meant being a bad dad.
- Counseling helped him realize he had bought a lie equating good dad status with financially paying for college.
Supporting Anxious Kids
- Ask empathetic questions and listen to your anxious kids without minimizing their fears.
- Model calm behavior and point them to truth while walking alongside them with consistent support.