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OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball and leading therapists

119 - ABANDONMENT - The Abandonment Wound Pt. 1 - How It Forms + Pulling People Closer + Being ‘Clingy’ ft. Stephanie Therapy

Oct 9, 2023
47:43
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Stephanie Therapy, a therapist specializing in abandonment wounds, joins Louise to discuss how the abandonment wound forms and drives us to overcompensate, cling, and pull others closer. They explore the neurobiological roots of abandonment, patterns of overcompensating, and the concept of pulling and keeping people close. Understanding your abandonment wound is crucial for healing and creating healthier relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • The abandonment wound can manifest in various ways, including overcompensating and manipulative behavior in relationships.
  • The fear of abandonment is a central theme in the abandonment wound, leading to hyper-vigilance and insecurity in relationships.

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Understanding the concept of the abandonment wound

The podcast episode explores the concept of the abandonment wound and how it can manifest in different ways. The abandonment wound is not limited to physical abandonment but also includes emotional abandonment or neglect. It can stem from experiences in our early years, particularly in our pre-verbal stage, where our dependency on caregivers for survival and connection plays a crucial role. The impact of these early experiences can result in various behaviors and coping mechanisms in adulthood.

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