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Couples Counseling For Parents

The Death of Defensiveness: How to end the cycle of defensiveness in your couple relationship

Jan 16, 2025
Defensiveness can block open communication, especially for parenting partners. Real-life scenarios illustrate how minor issues can spiral into major conflicts. The hosts unravel the protective instinct behind defensiveness and emphasize accountability and vulnerability as keys to breaking the cycle. Learn the crucial differences between simple apologies and genuine relationship repair. With practical strategies and sample scripts, they guide listeners towards healthier conversations and deeper emotional connections.
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Quick takeaways

  • Defensiveness in couple relationships often arises as a protective mechanism, hindering effective communication and contributing to relational conflict.
  • Leading with accountability followed by vulnerability is crucial for breaking the cycle of defensiveness and fostering genuine connection between partners.

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Celebrating Milestones and Engaging Listeners

The hosts express excitement about reaching their 90th episode, moving closer to the milestone of 100 episodes. They plan to make the 100th episode interactive by inviting listeners to submit questions or scenarios for discussion. This approach aims to engage the audience more directly, allowing them to contribute to the content. The hosts also encourage their listeners to help grow their subscriber base, aiming for an increase from 12,000 to 20,000 subscribers, emphasizing the importance of community support.

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