Now We're Getting Somewhere 60: "How do I make sure it's not ‘Grass Is Greener Syndrome'?" (Q&A)
Jul 23, 2025
A listener grapples with the fear of 'grass is greener syndrome' while considering a big move from Canada to the UK. The discussion focuses on how to check in with personal desires before making significant life changes. Four categories that create doubt in decision-making are explored, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection. The conversation also acknowledges cultural influences on choices, highlighting the balance between trusting one’s instincts and avoiding impulsive decisions. Insightful tips help navigate these complex emotions.
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Check Your Desire Trust Issues
- Check your underlying fears about trusting your desires before big decisions.
- Recognize if worry about "grass is greener syndrome" signals deeper distrust of your wants.
Grad School Regret Impacts Trust
- A client regretted not leaving grad school early despite realizing it wasn't right for her.
- Ignoring her true desires caused prolonged unhappiness in career and life decisions.
Challenge Cultural Blocks To Desires
- Explore if cultural or familial messages discourage you from trusting what you want.
- Untangle beliefs about selfishness or foolishness to better follow your desires wisely.