Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

1956: “I Love You, But…” How Couples Hear And Deal With Criticism by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Navigating Arguments With Your Partner

Nov 8, 2023

10:41

Snipd AI

Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a psychologist with over twenty-five years of experience, discusses how couples hear and deal with criticism in romantic relationships. She explores the challenges and complexities involved in communicating criticism in a romantic context, emphasizes the importance of understanding and meeting emotional needs, and highlights the need for constructive criticism and creating a safe environment for open communication.

AI Summary

AI Chapters

Episode notes

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Understanding each other's emotional needs is vital for handling criticism in romantic relationships.

Creating a safe and understanding environment where both partners feel comfortable admitting their mistakes enhances the handling of criticism in relationships.

Deep dives

Navigating Criticism in Relationships

Criticism in relationships can be challenging to handle. Many individuals struggle with effectively communicating criticism. In romantic relationships, criticism can be even more difficult to accept due to the emotional entanglement. Successful navigation of criticism requires understanding each other's emotional needs. Some partners seek positive affirmation and value, while others prioritize deep emotional connection. By recognizing and honoring these core needs, couples can create a solid foundation for handling difficult discussions and criticism, fostering a stronger and healthier relationship.

Introduction

3min

Navigating Criticism in Romantic Relationships

2min

Understanding and Meeting Emotional Needs in a Relationship

3min

Navigating Criticism in Relationships

2min

Dr. Margaret Rutherford talks about how couples hear and deal with criticism

Episode 1956: “I Love You, But…” How Couples Hear And Deal With Criticism by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Navigating Arguments With Your Partner

Dr. Margaret Rutherford has been a psychologist in private practice for over twenty-five years. She’s the author of “Perfectly Hidden Depression”, and hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, where she offers compassionate common-sense directions, ideas and goals toward the changes listeners want to make in healing.

The original post is located here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/i-love-you-but-how-couples-hear-and-deal-with-criticism/

Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com

Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices