Joseph Goldstein, a renowned expert on Buddhism and desire, dives deep into the three types of desire spoken by the Buddha. He reveals how our true longing is often for pleasant feelings rather than objects themselves. The discussion navigates desire's role in suffering, attachment, and mindfulness, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences. Through Vipassana meditation, Goldstein emphasizes that understanding desire can liberate us, proposing a balanced approach to foster genuine awareness and joy in everyday life.
Desire is a prominent source of suffering and can be classified into three types as described by the Buddha, highlighting its complexity in our lives.
Recognizing that we seek pleasant feelings rather than objects themselves empowers individuals to manage their desires with greater mindfulness and clarity.
Deep dives
The Nature of the Mind
The mind's inherent clarity and openness are often obscured by distractions and habitual patterns. These tendencies can become so ingrained that they remain unnoticed, leading individuals to misidentify with these patterns as part of their identity. Because recognizing this simplicity of awareness requires focused mindfulness, the process can be challenging, as illustrated by the Buddha's analogy comparing mind training to conquering a thousand enemies. This emphasizes the depth of difficulty individuals face in understanding their mental processes.
Desire and Suffering
Desire is identified as a significant underlying cause of both personal and societal suffering, manifesting through greed, fear, and hatred. The Buddha categorized desire into three types: craving for sense pleasures, craving for rebirth, and craving for non-rebirth, with each reflecting a fundamental belief about existence. These desires perpetuate the illusion of self, thus binding individuals to the cycle of suffering and rebirth, known as samsara. A key insight reveals that the attachment to the notion of self strengthens desires and these patterns keep individuals trapped in suffering.
Understanding the Nature of Desire
The discussion delves into the different dimensions of desire, particularly its role in mental attachments and expectations, both in daily life and during meditation. Individuals often confuse desire for objects or experiences with the anticipation of the pleasant feelings they expect to gain from them. Recognizing that it is not the object itself but the fleeting feeling we seek can offer clarity and a new perspective on one's desires. This awareness cultivates a sense of freedom, as individuals realize that they do not have to act on every desire that arises.
Renunciation and Freedom
Contrary to the common perception of renunciation as a burden, it is framed as a pathway to liberation from the pain of unfulfilled desires. The practice of renouncing attachment to desires can provide profound relief and a clearer mental state, less distracted by fleeting cravings. Strategies for managing desire include observing the feelings associated with wanting and understanding that these feelings can vanish without fulfillment. This insight reinforces the idea that desires should be examined rather than indulged, supporting a more discerning and mindful approach to everyday life.
In helping us with understanding desire, Joseph Goldstein explores the three types of desire that the Buddha spoke of and offers several ways of working with desire in our practice.
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This recording was originally published on Dharma Seed
“Usually we think that what we want is the object. But really what we want is the pleasant feeling that we think is going to come with that experience.” – Joseph Goldstein