BigDeal #77 Secret Agent Evy Poumpouras: How to Read Anyone and Never Get Taken Advantage Of
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Jun 27, 2025 
Evy Poumpouras, a former Secret Service agent and expert in influence and lie detection, shares her unique insights on human behavior and resilience. She discusses the importance of setting boundaries, navigating relationships authentically, and the nuances of communication. Evy highlights lessons learned from protecting presidents, the art of reading people, and the nature of predators in personal and professional settings. Her experiences and strategies offer powerful tools for anyone looking to strengthen their negotiation skills and personal empowerment.
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Power of Inner Circles
- Presidents surround themselves with loyal, filtered inner circles to shield from chaos and negativity.
- This buffering creates calm and clear zones allowing leaders to function effectively under pressure.
Balance Authenticity with Professionalism
- Be genuine, truthful, and professional rather than oversharing vulnerability indiscriminately.
- Adapt your version of yourself to the conversation context, especially in business settings.
Hold Boundaries Tight
- Hold your boundaries firmly to prevent others from walking over you.
- Recognize your role in recurring problems by honestly assessing your own contributions.
