How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen

Jun 3, 2025
Navigating the dating scene can be tricky, especially in today’s climate of heightened awareness. Discover how to flirt confidently without crossing boundaries. Learn the ins and outs of texting, making a move at work, and asking for a kiss with respect. There’s also valuable advice on how to sext the right way and what to keep in mind when inviting someone over. Ultimately, it’s about being bold yet respectful, while building genuine connections that resonate.
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ANECDOTE

Awkward First Date Kiss Lunge

  • Connell shared a first date where he awkwardly lunged for a surprise kiss, which led to no second date.
  • This lunge made the woman feel uncomfortable and showed the importance of timing in romantic moves.
INSIGHT

Empathy Over Fear in Me Too Era

  • The Me Too movement focuses on empathy for women's experiences rather than men’s fears.
  • Women still want men to lead in dating with respect, balancing boldness and sensitivity.
ADVICE

Flirt With Charm, Know When To Quit

  • Flirt charmingly and respectfully, and stop if she shows disinterest.
  • Persistence is welcomed if unsure of her interest, but give up after two or three unanswered messages.
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