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The Next Big Idea Daily

What if the Problem Isn’t Your Partner―It’s Stress?

Oct 11, 2024
Elizabeth Earnshaw, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of 'Til Stress Do Us Part, shares insights on how stress often drives wedges in relationships. She discusses the subtle ways stress breeds misunderstandings and highlights the need for couples to unite against external pressures. Earnshaw introduces the concept of a 'couple bubble' to combat distractions like smartphones. Finally, she offers practical strategies to manage stressors effectively, reinforcing the importance of prioritizing partners for healthier connections.
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Quick takeaways

  • Chronic stress diminishes relationship quality by impairing communication and affection, urging couples to recognize it as a common adversary.
  • Intentional prioritization of values and goals can help couples address feelings of inadequacy and foster healthier relationship dynamics.

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The Impact of Stress on Relationships

Chronic stress can significantly hinder relational dynamics by reducing individuals' capacity to engage positively with their partners. When faced with stress from both external factors, like financial difficulties or news overload, and internal issues, such as intimacy struggles, couples often react negatively. The physiological changes brought on by stress, including the release of adrenaline and cortisol, can impair humor, affection, and communication skills, leading to increased conflicts. Recognizing stress as a common adversary rather than pinpointing blame on each other can help couples work collaboratively to mitigate its effects.

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