ADHD Consultant shares his 4 minute SOLUTION to Rejection Sensitivity (RSD)
Jul 12, 2024
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ADHD Consultant Matt Gupwell shares his 4-step STOP method for managing Rejection Sensitivity, offering practical tips on handling emotional reactions and reflecting on triggers effectively.
Implementing the STOP strategy to manage reactions effectively by pausing, observing, and processing information.
Emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and reflection in handling reactions to prevent escalation and respond effectively.
Deep dives
STOP Acronym for Managing Reactions
The podcast episode discusses a strategy called STOP to manage reactions effectively. The speaker explains that STOP stands for S meaning to literally stop and do nothing initially, T to take 30 seconds to pay attention to the surroundings, O to observe everything that happened before the reaction, and finally P to process all the information. The speaker shares a personal anecdote where applying this STOP technique helped deescalate a situation and avoid reacting impulsively.
Practicing Self-awareness and Reflection
Another key point emphasized in the podcast is the importance of self-awareness and reflection in managing responses. The speaker highlights the significance of processing reactions quickly to prevent escalation. By reflecting on triggers and responses, individuals can learn to respond more effectively and avoid impulsive reactions. The example provided shows how practicing self-awareness can help in understanding situations better and handling them with more control.
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Managing Rejection Sensitivity with the STOP Approach