When practicing active listening, it is crucial to be aware of and control our biases. We should avoid the urge to confirm our preconceived notions, as these biases can cloud our ability to objectively listen and understand others. It is essential to check in with ourselves to ensure we are not entering a conversation with a predetermined mindset. Approaching listening with an agenda hinders true progress in communication with others, including our children.
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Episode 2062:
Dr. Jack Stoltzfus presents invaluable insights on nurturing parent-young adult relationships. He introduces the concept of listening with a "Third Ear" to understand the unsaid emotions and thoughts of young adults, emphasizing the importance of non-judgmental listening and recognizing the critical developmental tasks of identity, independence, and intimacy. Additionally, Stoltzfus offers practical advice for building bridges towards adult friendships with young adults through early, respectful interactions, acting as a consultant rather than an authority, and fostering a space for mutual respect and understanding.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentslettinggo.com/parents-we-need-to-listen-with-the-third-ear/ & https://parentslettinggo.com/3-tips-for-building-bridges-to-adult-friendships-with-your-young-adult/
Quotes to ponder:
"Emotions are the currency of intimacy and a bridge to a deeper relationship."
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