Getting curious about where needs come from

The insight highlights the importance of being curious about one's needs and motivations. The speaker shares a personal experience of realizing that the drive to win puzzles stemmed from a desire to feel loved. By understanding the origin of this need, the speaker's partner was able to express love in a way that met that need. The key takeaway is to explore and understand the roots of one's desires, whether it's a simple preference like enjoying a bubble bath or a deeper need for validation, as these needs serve a purpose in our lives.