It is important for young people to pace themselves and focus on their own development before taking on larger societal issues. They need to remind themselves of their purpose and not get overwhelmed by the pressure to be seen. It is essential to prioritize the tasks at hand and understand that they cannot fix everything immediately. Graduating and acquiring necessary skills should be the initial goal. Pacing oneself is not about being complacent, but rather being strategic with time and energy. The speaker gives an example of her time as First Lady, emphasizing the importance of focusing on a few initiatives rather than spreading oneself too thin. This strategic approach allows for more depth and effectiveness in making a difference. The speaker highlights that young people need to learn this skill of focusing and narrowing their efforts.