Acknowledging and challenging self-critical thoughts, such as feelings of inadequacy and laziness, is crucial in overcoming perfectionism. Visualizing the inner critic, like a green goblin, helps in detaching from negative thoughts. Responding to self-criticism with compassion rather than criticism allows for a softer approach to confronting the inner critic, acknowledging its intention to help while also pushing back. This process may be challenging initially, especially when accustomed to solely listening to the critical inner voice.
Holding yourself to impossibly high standards is self-defeating and makes for a miserable life. Can Dr Laurie Santos find ways to tackle her constant perfectionism so she can perform better and have more fun?
She hears from researcher Thomas Curran about a worrying growth in perfectionism in society, and asks "recovering perfectionist" Jordana Confino how to tackle the nagging voice in your head telling you to always push yourself and work harder.
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