Approaching dating as an experiment can make it easier by removing expectations and anticipation. The fear of having to turn someone down for a second date can be alleviated by drafting a text beforehand that lets you off the hook. Typing the text before the date and knowing that you can hit send and never have to think about it again can erase some of the fear. Going on a second date even if you don't see a long-term future can be beneficial because you can't know who you'll end up marrying from a first date. Writing a breakup text before the date makes it easier to hit send when you get home. However, don't read too much into things if they don't go according to plan. Stop overthinking and just make things happen. Once you get over the resistance and fear, dating becomes easier and creates access to finding a partner. It's important to believe that we are meant to be with someone and to not let fear be an obstacle in finding love.