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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

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The Destructive Power of Playing the Victim

Playing the victim in a relationship is a manipulative tactic used to avoid addressing issues. By portraying oneself as the victim, a person shifts the focus away from the actual problem, making it impossible for the other party to address the issue effectively. This manipulative behavior disempowers the other person in the relationship, trapping them in a position where they have to manage the emotions of the so-called victim. In therapy, it is crucial to confront and change this dynamic by encouraging open communication and not allowing the victim role to dominate the interaction. Recognizing and disrupting this pattern can lead to healthier and more authentic relationships, free from the power play of victimhood.

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