Adult Attachment and Avoidance

We internalize this deficient other, right? Like the deficiency becomes us. So then you'll see a cluster of defenses and symptoms around that more internalized deficient self. And we have different types of strategies of avoidance - just that in of itself, a stain distracted, constantly busy, forgetting. What's the other one? approachability. Let me not get distracted. Okay, but the shaver and his on the two continuums from the social science research and attachment,. This tracks that well, too.