How to Encourage Deeper Conversations

✨Key takeaways:

• Ask inviting questions.
• Ask deep questions about values, beliefs, and experiences
• Prepare for spontaneous interactions.

To facilitate more engaging conversations, incorporate these strategies:

1. Ask subtle, inviting questions to encourage further sharing. Examples: "What do you think about that?" or "That's interesting. What do you say next?"
2. Ask deep questions that reveal how others see themselves and the world. Examples: Instead of asking just factual questions, ask follow-up questions about their values, beliefs, or experiences. "Were your parents doctors?" or "Did you always want to be a doctor?".
3. Prepare for spontaneous interactions by pre-thinking conversation topics. This reduces anxiety and allows for a more relaxed and engaging conversation. Example: Before a conversation, jot down three topics of interest, taking only 7-10 seconds. Although you may not discuss these specific topics, having them in mind can boost your confidence and facilitate a smoother interaction.