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Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel

Sex With Emily

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Reclaim Your Desire to Reignite Connection

Many express a sentiment that they can live without sex, but this often masks deeper emotional and relational disconnects. The complexity of sexual desire encompasses individual histories, emotional trauma, upbringing, and relational dynamics. Factors such as previous unwanted sexual experiences can lead individuals to shy away from intimacy. Conversely, an emotional disconnect from oneself or others often accompanies a decline in sexual desire. The notion of ownership over one's sexuality is paramount; many feel that their sexual identity has been dictated by external influences, thereby stripping them of autonomy. This can create a paradox where the same physical experiences may be perceived as burdensome rather than pleasurable. Reclaiming one’s sexuality involves recognizing it as an intrinsic part of oneself, leading to a profound transformation in intimacy, allowing individuals to engage with pleasure rather than obligation. This reclamation fosters a capacity to invite freedom in sexual expression, revitalizing connection in relationships.

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