Sex With Emily Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel
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Sep 5, 2023 
Esther Perel, a psychotherapist and bestselling author, discusses important changes in sex and relationships. Topics include the rise of non-monogamy, reviving sexual sparks, and using technology to enhance intimacy. They also explore the significance of sex in relationships, alternative family models, and the impact of artificial intimacy.
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Recognizing Relationship Positives
- Couples often focus on what's going wrong and ignore what they do right, creating a negative bias.
- Listening to others' therapy sessions normalizes relationship struggles and helps see new communication possibilities.
Communication Shapes Relationship Outcomes
- Relationship problems depend more on communication style than differences in opinions or hobbies.
- Contempt and disrespect in arguments harm relationships more than the issues fought about.
Emotional vs Sexual Needs Diverge
- Emotional needs and sexual needs don't always align, affecting sexual attraction.
- Lack of spark from the start can mean choosing someone steady over erotic chemistry; different types of sexuality exist.