Blaming others for our shortcomings is a lie we tell ourselves. We tend to blame our spouse, boss, subordinates, coworkers, peers, friends, enemies, kids, and neighbors for our failures, but the truth is we can't control others. The only person we can control is ourselves. We need to focus on making ourselves better and not rely on others' behavior for our success. It's essential to discipline ourselves, be faster, stronger, smarter, and more humble. We should free our minds and open ourselves to new ideas instead of blaming others.