Jocko Podcast DEF 06: You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You.
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Jan 12, 2024 Explore the power of personal accountability and the absurdity of blaming others for our failures. Discover how self-control and open-mindedness can shape our identities. Learn the importance of immediate action to tackle small issues and improve your circumstances. Delve into the significance of personal agency, even in tough situations, and how disciplined decision-making can lead to achieving your goals.
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Excuses and Ego
- People make excuses to protect their egos.
- Failure hurts, and it's easier to blame external factors than to accept responsibility.
Blaming Inanimate Objects
- People often blame inanimate objects for their shortcomings, like a donut for overeating.
- They might also blame their bed for not getting up, deflecting responsibility.
Blaming Others
- Blaming others is more common than blaming objects because people have agency.
- We blame spouses, bosses, coworkers, friends, and even enemies for our failures.