Success is Measured by Character and Becoming

The speaker realized that true success is not measured by wealth or accolades, but by the character and values one embodies. This shift in mindset led to a focus on developing a 'to be' list alongside a 'to do' list, emphasizing qualities such as generosity, wisdom, and compassion. The speaker emphasizes the importance of transitioning from an accomplishing mindset to a becoming mindset, where personal growth and character development are prioritized over external achievements.