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116. Are You Sure Your Partner Feels Safe With You?

Bridging Connections with Bryan Reeves

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Navigating Criticism in Relationships and Male Identity

Criticism in relationships can be challenging for men who often view themselves through their actions and performance. Criticism, defined as unsolicited direction, can trigger feelings of inadequacy and fear of being seen as a failure. Men may interpret criticism as a power play by their partners, exacerbating their existing insecurities. Distinguishing between criticism and feedback is crucial; feedback focuses on the impact of actions and comes from a place of love and care, unlike criticism which implies wrongness. Using gentle and considerate language like 'I love you' and 'I want to share something meaningful with you' can help men open up to constructive feedback rather than feeling attacked. Offering feedback with phrases like 'ouch' instead of direct criticism helps in fostering healthier communication in relationships.

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